What is something that you really enjoy doing, despite being objectively poor at doing it?
Next: Stuff you learned as a kid.
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Previous ask:
What is something that you really enjoy doing, despite being objectively poor at doing it?
Emma answers: I am not good at knitting. I’m generally bad at completing projects, following intricate directions, and untangling things. Knitting is not and should not be my forte. When I get in the groove, I find it relaxing and meditative, but even once I’ve gotten there I find myself making mistakes and inevitably putting down my project for extended periods of time.
I want to be able to see myself as a knitter. Someone who’s a little quirky and crafty, who’s comfortable sitting in silence and relaxing for extended periods of time. But I’m far too restless and jumpy to truly be good at this hobby.
I have a bad habit of gifting unsolicited beanies made with inexpensive Walmart yarn to crushes and new friends. Trying to keep up my image as someone who knits while surrounded by fairy lights and DIY decorations.
I always cringe a tiny bit when I’ve convinced someone I’m a capable knitter. It feels like I’m an imposter, who’s spent far too much money on yarn and needles.
[[Ed note: First off, we all feel like imposters, always. So, don’t sweat it. My answer: singing. If I could snap my fingers and immediately be twice as good at something, it would be singing. Has anyone out there taken singing lessons? Worth it? — Jody]]
Emma’s Ask:
What is something incorrect that you learned as a little kid and how did you discover it was not true later in life?
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Bits and Pieces
From time to time, I’ll throw some updates, links, and other notes at the bottom of the newsletter.
Yesterday was an incredibly tough day in journalism. A lot of people I read and admire lost their jobs. It’s deepened my resolve to support journalism with my dollars, especially journalism being made in new and hopefully more sustainable models. (More on that in this great thread.) And, a smaller thing that at least feels good to do — throw some money into the Buzzfeed beer fund.
Some perfect songs:
Colorado by The Flying Burrito Brothers
I’ll Be Around by Yo La Tengo
Sweet Wanomi by Bill Withers
If you happen to be reading from Atlanta, I’ll be in town next week in the run-up to the Super Bowl, hosting the panel discussion after we premiere the new 30 for 30 film “Deion’s Double Play.” Let me know if you want to meet up or attend the screening.
Interesting, if technical, read: How David Byrne went completely wireless on his most recent tour.